The Royal Cayman Islands Police Service, (RCIPS) Family Support Unit are encouraging anyone to come and see them if they think they are suffering from abuse of any kind. The FSU offers a confidential service to the immediate and extended members of family units and aims to provide a supportive, sensitive and easily accessible service to those in need.

“Abuse is a pattern of behaviour used to establish power and control over another person through fear and intimidation; it often includes the threat or use of violence,” said Inspector Angelique Howell, officer in charge of the unit. “Abuse happens when one person believes he or she is entitled to control another.

Abuse of family members can take many forms, including emotional abuse; economic abuse; sexual abuse; threats, intimidation, isolation and a variety of other behaviours to maintain fear, intimidation and power.” She explained that all these types of abuse are completely unacceptable.

“We want people to know that they can come forward and speak with us in complete confidence about any problems they may be experiencing,” she added. The unit is offering the following tips and advice for people to think about: Think about what you will say to your partner if he/she becomes violent.

Think of a safe place to go if an argument occurs - Avoid rooms with no exits (bathroom) or rooms with weapons (kitchens). Make a list of safe people to contact. Memorize all important telephone numbers. Establish a code word or sign so that family, friends, teachers or co-workers know when to call for help.

“Perpetrators of domestic abuse can be anyone. A perpetrator of violence is not classed as any particular creed or colour,” said Ms Howell. “Anyone can be a victim of domestic abuse.” If you are a person experiencing domestic abuse please contact the Family Support Unit at 946-9185 or any of the police stations in Grand Cayman, Cayman Brac and Little Cayman or call 911.

You are not alone.