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LETTER TO THE EDITOR

Attesting to the bullying problem

Tuesday, March 20, 2007

Dear Sir:

I used to live in the Cayman Islands during the 1990s, so I know Grand Cayman fairly well. I now live in the UK and keep in touch with Cayman life by reading Cayman Net News online.

I was saddened to read that bullying is now occurring in Cayman schools. Unfortunately, it is a growing problem that I feel will not be resolved until our children have respect for their elders, and respect for each other.

I am convinced that what they watch on TV and see in the movies has considerable influence on their attitudes.

My 13-year-old son has been to three High Schools in the UK, and at each has been severely bullied.

He has been beaten about the head, kicked, pushed, ridiculed, deliberately tripped up, called names and been ostracised by daring to complain about his treatment by other pupils.

He spent his break times hiding up to keep safe, and lived in fear of going to school. He is now home educated, and I want to say to those parents who fear for their children that this is a viable option.

It is not compulsory to send our children to school, as long as they receive an education.  I know that home education is more popular in the US, but it is becoming increasingly so in the UK, especially as bullying is becoming so widespread.

My son was so busy keeping hold of his pencils, books, bag etc. and stopping other children from ripping up his things, that he found it difficult to concentrate on his studies.  Now, working at home away from the threat of intimidation, he is excelling at his work.

Home education may not be for everyone, and many children thrive in the school environment.

However, for those who struggle I would urge parents to look into the home education option.
 
Jane Finch

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